
As coaches, our job is to provide objective, unbiased feedback to couples. We do judge or determine what couples should do or what they need, but to act as a facilitator so that they can figure it out for themselves. Well-meaning though they may be, friends and family members may think that they know what is best for someone, and their ideas often conflict with what the individual thinks is best for himself or herself. As Life/Relationship coaches, we free our clients from expectations imposed on them by others.